Each family has a story. And each story is unique. We all have anecdotes, photographs, and documents that can help that story live on for generations but what do with do with these items and how can we curate what we have?
Start with a family tree.
Creating a family tree to see who is related to whom is like a writer creating an outline for a book; it’s the skeleton on which we can build the story of our family. Look through documents, talk to your elders, and check out genealogy sites.
Create a project unique to your family.
You could collect family recipes or record favorite memories or create a time capsule. Take a look at A Place for Mom for more suggestions.
Archive old photographs and documents.
Treat your family photos and documents as the precious objects that they are and preserve them so your children and grandchildren can enjoy them too. For help in preservation check out Bertrand Lyons, archivist of the American Folklife Center of the Library of Congress writing about archiving in The New York Times, a Smithsonian Institution blog abut preservation, and a commercial site that offers helpful information.
Interview an older person.
Document your family stories for all to enjoy. Record with audio or video the older generation. Ask questions. Get together with cousins to share stories. You can read this blog post for inspiration.
Use your estate for future generations.
Get help from professionals.
There are programs to help you preserve family memories. A search online under “preserving your family legacy” will lead to a number of companies that produce CDs, videos, and bound books as well as help you create a family journal. You can also purchase journal-like memory books full of thought-provoking questions that you can use to preserve family memories. Here’s list of some of the books.
Join with others.
If you would like to add your legacy stories and photos to a pictorial and oral history library, take a look at LegacyStories.org.
And check out one of our earlier blog posts on digital preservation.
As one company that helps clients preserve family history says: your legacy is who you are, not what you have. So let’s preserve the things we have that speak to who we are.
≈Linda Hetzer is an editor and author of books on home design, crafts, and food, and coauthor of Moving On: A Practical Guide to Downsizing the Family Home.
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